Re:Parenting Circle
Ready for a refreshing and real approach to parenting?
Have other parent courses seemed too blah, boring, bossy or ineffective?
You might be in the right place.
12
12 weeks of expert education
6
6 sessions of live coaching and group discussion and camaraderie
∞
Perennial access to a Signal group for asynchronous connection.
(And for those of you who are like: ANOTHER social media, noooo… I get it. You don’t have to use it.)
For parents who are looking to:
address particular parenting challenges,
gain pragmatic skills and strategies around relating to their children,
feel more empowered and confident in their parenting,
get neurodivergence-specific support,
learn to reparent themselves (unsexy and cringe but effective af),
and co-regulate, empathize, and unshame with a parenting coach and other parents.
You’ll Learn:
Nervous System Attunement 101: how to prevent blow-ups from both YOU and your child using nervous system cues.
Unshaming (lineage: David Bedrick) - a helpful approach to navigating parenting shame, guilt, mistakes and failures (we all have this, let’s talk about it already).
Not 1 but 3 powerful relating frameworks to help navigate any conflict or miscommunication with more resourcing:
CPS (lineage: Ross Greene)
PCA Relating Skills (lineage: James-Olivia Chu Hillman)
NVC (lineage: Marshall Rosenberg)
There’ll be more:
If after 6 weeks, this has felt amazing to learn and experiment with and you’re ready to deepen your parenting-as-relating practice, you are welcome to join:
A Relating Intensive for Parents
An 8 week course for alumni of the Re:Parenting Circle
More info on this program - listen to me and get a feel:
The Logistics
12 weeks of 12 weekly recorded lessons
+ 6 live virtual (via zoom) meetings for 1.5 hours every other week
I specialize in neurodivergence (Autism/ADHD/AuDHD/2e/ODD/PMDD/PDA) but any and all parents are free to join and will benefit from this program
Schedule a free mutual fit call to get started.
The cost for the entire program is $600 after March 1, but there are two Early Bird discounts:
Sign Up by Feb. 25 for $495.
Sign Up by March. 1 for $550.
Existing 1:1 clients can access Re:Parenting Circle for $195 - please notify me of your intent to join ASAP. This is also available for clients who onboard before March 1.
Payment plans available. Discount for addl. caregiver.
Registration closes March 11.
Teachings: Pre-recorded, accessible anytime, lifetime access.
Live virtual meetings:
Every other Tuesday from 11:30am-1pm MT beginning March 18th.
(I will add a second cohort if I get enough interest)
Exact dates: March 18, April 1, April 15, April 29, May 13, May 27
12 spots max per cohort.
If you've worked with me before you know I bring a very audacious, trickster, decolonizing perspective that is refreshing and profoundly unbiased and non-judgmental. We will play games, scheme, and experiment with our kids (but not in a problematic way lol). You don’t learn to ride a bike by thinking about it. Very demure.
“We’ve accomplished more with you in two months than in 15 years of therapy. You cut through BS like a knife.”
- 1:1 client
I am NOT for you if believe I have less to offer as a coach and not a therapist, I am NOT for you if you think your kid is the problem, I am not for you if you are looking for a magic pill to make parenting easy.
“You can’t teach your kid social-emotional skills without having them yourself first. That’s what this course teaches: the awareness, relating and communication skills we were never given as kids because our parents didn’t have them either. The cycle can end with you. It can end with this course.”
This is a high-responsibility container. It is a brave space, not a safe space, because safety is never guaranteed in relating - although a brave space means we are willing to orient towards mutual safety. We are adults learning how to adult so the expectations will be you are willing to experience:
discomfort,
new information that might contradict old information and current beliefs and
people who are not the same as you.
Participation pre-requisite: You know how to care for yourself when dysregulated and advocate for your needs.
In this container, we ARE each other’s problems AND we are accountable for ourselves. Both/and.
Relating can feel uncomfortable or scary when we begin to consciously step outside of our usual coping strategies.
Registration is open to all. When you fill out the registration form, I will contact you to discuss any questions and firm up a payment plan.
I’ve intentionally written this sales page to try to give you a good idea of who I am and how I work. That being said, if you’re still not sure, please schedule a free call to assess fit.
If you can't find an open time for the consult, please email me (celestynawild @ gmail . com) to manually schedule a call.
I’m not one to promise results or progress. I don’t think that’s real. You are in charge of you. I have zero control over you. What I can promise I that I will share the tools and knowledge that:
make me a highly sought after parenting coach and educator
turned my personal parenting from a hot mess into something that impresses people to the point of complimenting me on the reg
turned my personal parenting from something that felt scary and overwhelming into something I feel genuinely confident, capable, joyful and present doing (and I have neurospicy ones with birth trauma!)
genuinely excite me because of the results I get and see my clients getting
What the 12 teachings will cover:
1) PCA - Person Centered Relating - a framework and skillset for relating competently and for making relational decisions that give satisfying results. Learning to send and receive communication.
2) NVC - Non-Violent Communication - a framework and process for communicating and learning to interpret intense, unskillful, aggressive or mean communication constructively. De-escalation strategies.
3) CPS - Collaborative Pro-Active Solutions - a framework and process for collaborating and problem-solving with your child. A conversational structure that holds instead of structure that oppresses.
4) Parenting Triggers - all parents get triggered by their kids. Learning how to notice, process and decrease triggers and your reaction to them.
5) Boundaries - Do you teeter back and forth between parenting too permissively and too controllingly? Or maybe you want to be less authoritarian OR less permissive but don’t know how or fear a negative outcome for you or your child?
6) Screens - this will be fun - bring all your values, rules, fears, and opinions on screens! I will share my thoughts - and they’re likely not what you anticipate. Everyone from no-screen to unlimited screen households will benefit.
7) Play - This covers play as connection and as process. Learn how play (for ALL ages) can help with co-regulation, communication and processing conflict or threat.
8) Unshaming - one of the most powerful ways I have found to increase parenting capacity and to work with triggers. A great tool for parents who carry guilt, shame or have a strong inner critic.
9) What to do with refusal or a child’s “no” - this can be super triggering/disempowered territory, so we’ll spend extra time here.
10) Nervous System 101 - nervous system awareness and care is FOUNDATIONAL and LIFE-CHANGING - and I mean awareness/care for both YOUR OWN system as well as your child. It’s at 10 on this list but that’s definitely not in order of importance or when this will get taught.
11) The 6 P’s framework - in old school parenting, parents are meant to prepare, protect and provide for their kids. We add to this framework the modern parenting Ps of : perceive, process and practice - I’ll go into all of these more in the course.
12) Power, Control + Authority - and all the sneaky ways this goes sideways even if we are the most gentle parent ever. How to have a cleaner and more skillful relationship with both your own power and agency and your child’s power and agency.
BONUS: The 13th Teaching: Neurodivergence as Medicine for the Culture - a lesson on being radically neuroaffirming and seeing neurodivergence through a decolonized and unshamed lens.